Book Review: Miracle for Jen by Linda Barrick

Miracle for Jen by Linda Barrick
Publication Date: February 14, 2012
Format: Hardcover
251 pages
Related Links: Hope Out Loud
Synopsis from Amazon:

On the night of November 5, 2006, the Barrick family was driving home from church when their van was struck by a drunk driver. Fifteen-year-old Jen suffered multiple skull fractures and severe brain trauma and was not expected to survive the night. But against all odds, she did. As she lingered in a coma, doctors warned that if Jen ever woke up, she would be cursing and screaming in confusion due to her brain injuries. Instead, after five weeks she opened her eyes and began praying and praising God. Jen didn’t remember her middle name, recognize her parents, or recall that she had a little brother–but she remembered Jesus and every word to every praise song and scripture she had hidden in her heart before the accident. As any loving mother would, Jen’s mother Linda wanted God to heal Jen–make her like she was before. Normal. But a loving God had something else in mind–instead of making her normal, God is making Jennifer–and the whole Barrick family–extraordinary, miraculous. “Miracle for Jen” is the remarkable true story of a family who overcame tragedy and learned to trust God’s plan for their lives in a whole new way.

My Review:

Jennifer Barrick is a faith-full teenager who wants to be used by God in big ways. But, due to her quiet demeanor, she prays often for boldness to share her faith. One night, on the way home from a concert, the Barrick family’s lives are forever changed when they are involved in a horrific car accident which leaves Jen severely brain damaged.

The book is told from her mother, Linda’s, point of view, as this is ultimately a book about a family. The faith of the whole family is tested through this trial. Each member is affected differently by the accident, but, out of this tragedy, God reveals Himself in amazing ways. Jen is transformed into a bold vessel for Christ, sharing the light of His hope, love, and grace to others. Throughout her medical crisis and subsequent trials stemming from the brain injury, this book reveals how Jen’s relationship with the Lord is strengthened beyond anything imaginable. Her child-like faith and hope are contagious. She is not down and out about her condition – she is happy to be able to proclaim the love of Christ to others, if that is how God wants to use her. I’m just amazed by this young girl and her testimony. Her story is incredible.

There is some repetitiveness to the story, which is why I give it 4 stars instead of 5. The story is a bit choppy in places and does not flow well, but, as a whole, the story is amazing and one I highly recommend.

rating 4 star

Review: Start Journaling and Change Your Life in 7 Days by Mari L. McCarthy

Start Journaling and Change Your Life in 7 Days
by Mari L. McCarthy

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Synopsis:

Journaling, like any writing adventure or exercise program, tends to be cyclical—there are the times when you can’t wait to get-to-it and times when you can’t get started. Mari has the fix! It is her new e-workbook Start Journaling and Change Your Life in 7 Days.

In this workbook Mari addresses the most common roadblocks we come against in our journaling practice, from writer’s block and lack of time to finding motivation and silencing our inner critic. Whether you are new to journaling or need to climb out of a slump these seven days of writing prompts will get you moving in the right direction.

My Thoughts:

I am a wanna-be journaler. I love journals. I love pens. But putting the two together has always been a challenge for me. There is something so frightening about penning my innermost thoughts where someone might find them and find out how crazy I really am! There is also that part of journaling that is so freeing, too. The ability to dump everything; to work through a problem by writing it out; to discover things about myself that I did not know were there. So, I go through stages of wanting to journal. I even bought an app for my iPad that is password-protected thinking that would encourage me to journal more. It hasn’t.

Mari McCarthy is a journaling therapist (how cool is that?!) and in her short seven-day workbook she tackles the seven mostly common obstacles for people who are starting to journal. She captured my attention from the second paragraph. I felt like she was speaking directly to me:

“Have you ever tried journaling before? If so, think about the reasons you may have stalled in the past. Do you have a hard time fitting it into your busy schedule? Do you battle writer’s block every time you sit down to write? Or do you go through fits and starts with journaling, writing every day for a week, then abandoning your journal for months at a time?”  –p. 3

Yes. Yes. Yes.

The workbook is designed to be done over the course of one week. On each of the seven days, Mari explains one of the obstacles to journaling and ways to overcome it. For example, she offers advice for combating writer’s block and finding time to write. Journaling prompts provide a starting point for the beginning journaler.

I really enjoyed Mari’s book and I am looking forward to working through it in depth in the very near future. There is a lot of great information for the beginning journaler or the tried-and-gave-up journaler (me) with great prompts to get you started writing immediately. Mari also offers a Start Journaling and Change Your Life Challenge (next one is June 4-10) and a forum for journalers to connect for support and inspiration.

I would definitely recommend this book to those looking to start journaling and need a bit of creative inspiration. It is a great resource.

*****

About the Author:

When Multiple Sclerosis robbed her right side of strength Mari decided to teach herself to write with her left hand. She gained more than strength, she found herself–buried talents, hidden baggage, and a way to heal herself from the inside out.

Now a certified Journal Therapist, Mari shares her knowledge and experience with others by teaching them how to find their own strengths and talents and use them to solve problems and achieve goals.

Mari L. McCarthy is The Journaling Therapy Specialist, founder of Create Write Now and Journaling for the Health of It™. Mari offers guidance, counseling and encouragement to writers through her many journaling eBooks and in private Journaling Jumpstart consultations.

Website: http://www.createwritenow.com/

Blog: http://www.createwritenow.com/journal-writing-blog/

*****

Review: Solace by Roberta Temes, Ph.D.

Solace: Finding Your Way Through Grief and Learning to Live Again
Title:  Solace:  Finding Your Way Through Grief and Learning to Live Again
Author:  Roberta Temes Ph.D.
Genre:  Non-Fiction
Publisher:  AMACOM
ISBN:  978-0-8144-1463-7
146 pages

There is no more stressful and traumatic experience than coping with the death of a loved one. There are various stages of grief and loss, which often take months or even years for many people to overcome. But with the right guidance, readers can learn to lessen the pain and live happy lives. “Solace” provides soothing comfort and hope for those who are suffering. As an award-winning bereavement expert, Roberta Temes believe all of us experience and process grief in our own way. Here she helps readers through the stages of grief, tells them when they should worry, helps them consider the pros and cons of bereavement groups and counselors, and shows them how to use visualization to help the healing process. Featuring anecdotes drawn from her bereavement practice so readers may learn from the experiences of others who have also gone through and struggled with loss, “Solace” is also filled with comforting affirmations, quotations and words of encouragement. Dealing with loss is never easy, but this book provides a calming companion to help readers through their mourning and begin enjoying life again.

My Thoughts:

For anyone who is grieving the loss of a loved one, this book is an amazing read.  When my grandfather passed away last fall, this book was a tremendous comfort to me.  The author explains the grieving process in a conversational manner, with anecdotes from patients she has seen in her practice.  It is an easy book to read and is a very helpful resource that isn’t preachy or telling you what you should feel and how long you should feel it.  I think one of the most important things I got out of this book is that every person grieves differently and for different periods of time.  What one person does while grieving may be completely opposite to what another person does.  This book offers a multitude of ideas and mechanisms for coping with grief, from writing, to art, to bereavement groups.  There is also a section on helping children through grief

I don’t review much non-fiction, but this book came to me at just the right time and was just what I needed.  I highly recommend it for those of you who are grieving.

I received a complimentary copy of this book from FSB Associates for review.

Blog Tour: Coppola – A Pediatric Surgeon in Iraq by Dr. Chris Coppola – Review, Interview & Book Giveaway!

Author:  Dr. Chris Coppola
Advanced Readers Copy Soft Cover
Publisher:  NTI Upstream
Note:  I received this book free from the publisher in exchange for an honest review and participation in a virtual book tour. 

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Book Description:

Coppola: A Pediatric Surgeon in Iraq is the fierce, true-life account of Dr. Chris Coppola’s two deployments in Operation Iraqi Freedom as an Air Force pediatric surgeon. Twice stationed at Balad Air Base, fifty miles north of Baghdad, in what was first a rude M*A*S*H*-style tent hospital and later became one of the largest U.S. military installations on foreign soil, Dr. Coppola works feverishly to save the lives of soldiers and civilians as word spreads among Iraqi families that, no matter what the infirmity, he can save their children.

Interview with Author, Dr. Chris Coppola:

1. As Lt. Col. and a doctor, it must have been difficult at times to reconcile the military side of your mission with that of a doctor in a foreign, war-torn nation. How did you do it?

As a doctor and an officer in the Air Force, I was a dual-professional while I was deployed to Iraq. Each has its own code and obligations. As a doctor, the entire idea of war was anathema to me and it was very hard to see how any good could come of it. In my book, Coppola: A Pediatric Surgeon in Iraq, I describe a day when these two professions came into conflict. I was caring for a child who had been burned over most of her body, and we were performing an operation to graft healthy skin over her burned skin. Just after I had harvested the skin from her body, we received notice that there had been a mass casualty and numerous injured were headed to the hospital. My commander came in and told me to end the operation immediately and make way for new wounded. I didn’t have the heart to throw away the skin, so I kept on operating, worked as fast as my team and I could, and we got that skin on. Fortunately, we had a commander who understood this decision was just a sign of my commitment to children.

2. What did your fellow surgeons think of the work you were doing with children? In the book, you mention that the U.S. surgeons made a tongue-and-cheek sign renaming the hospital: “The Coppola Foundation for the Betterment of Iraqi Children.”  Tell us about that.

The response to the children I had brought to the hospital was mixed. Some of the staff saw their own children, siblings or cousins in the faces of the Iraqi children who came to us needing treatment. Taking care of them was a small way to ease the pain and worry of missing children back home. Others had objections to being involved in the care of pediatric patients. For some, it was fear and nervousness that they might do something wrong because they were not used to treating young patients. Others felt that the main purpose of the hospital to treat combat injured troops didn’t leave room to open the doors to kids. Over time, those accustomed to treating children helped train the others, and even those resistant to the concept began to realize that treating injured and ill children was a sorely needed service, greatly appreciated by the Iraqi people. Whether they agreed with it or not, my colleagues quickly learned that I was focused on care of children, and they alternated between good-natured teasing, and coming to me first when a child came to the hospital in need of surgery.

3. Could you describe how you coped while far away from home? Did you have a support system to help while overseas?

Both times I was deployed to Iraq it was very difficult for me to be so far from my wife and children. However, work often kept me so busy I didn’t have time to think. Other nights, when the hospital was quiet and there were no operations, I would lie in my hooch unable to sleep. These were the times I would write. It was so hard to get the images of mangled bodies and shattered children out of my head, but somehow writing my experiences down let me settle them so I could move on. Fortunately, I had the support of friends and family back home through email and morale calls. And there was no way I could have gotten through deployment without leaning on my colleagues in the hospital.

4. How did you go about converting your letters into a memoir? Did you find this was a difficult transition? Did you ever feel like you remembered the experience differently when you went back to rewrite the letters home?

I originally wrote my letters as a way of letting people back home have a small glimpse of life on a military base in Iraq. I sent them to friends and family, they sent the letters on to other readers, and soon I had an audience of over a hundred readers. If I went too long without emailing home, I would get concerned inquiries checking to see if something had happened to me. After returning home, I suddenly felt like I was no longer doing anything to help the troops, like I had been doing day after day in the combat support hospital. Several friends suggested that I turn my letters into a book. I decided that releasing my story would be a way to share the heroism and bravery of both troops and Iraqi civilians I had met. It would also be a way I could try to raise funds to support injured troops families through Fisher House.

It was a challenge to convert my letters into a narrative that spanned two deployments, because it was difficult to revisit some of the memories of my tours. As I retold and combined the stories of individuals who had lived or died in moments of intense struggle and tragedy, I felt like I was going through it all over again. The memories hadn’t changed, but I found that I had tucked them away into a hidden place in my mind. If anything, the experience of coalescing the story into a memoir has made me understand much better what we all went through over there.

My Thoughts:

This medical memoir tells the true-life tale of Dr. Chris Coppola’s two tours in Balad, Iraq as a pediatric surgeon.  This book offers a very unique perspective of the war, coming from the medical staff who dealt with the aftermath of the bombings and shootings in Iraq.  This book will really open your eyes to what happens there on an almost daily basis.  It is heartbreaking.
The book is broken into three parts.  A good chunk of it details Dr. Coppola’s first tour in Balad starting in January 2005 and ending in May 2005.  He recounts numerous surgeries that he performed on American soldiers, Iraqi soldiers and policemen, terrorists, and civilians, including innocent children.  There are some pretty graphic explanations of the surgeries.  The medical jargon is explained fairly well, so I wasn’t too confused by the narrative during these sections. 
As a pediatric surgeon, Dr. Coppola was called into the hospital whenever a child came in. 
He became known in Iraq as a healer of children and many families would seek him out to care for their child.  The cover of the book illustrates this point.  A woman heard of Dr. Coppola and, without knowing any English, came to the hospital with just his name on a scrap piece of paper, seeking his help.  There were many times, however, that children had to be turned away since they were not directly injured as a result of the war.   
It was difficult to read about his experiences with various children throughout his deployment.  I honestly don’t know how he did it.  It was emotional to read some of the stories, especially that of Leila.  You can feel his pain and angst as he related her story.  You want to help these children in every way that you can.
One thing I found especially interesting are all of the recreational activities that are available on base.  I had no idea that these types of things would be available to the military (movie theater, gym, swimming pool).  It definitely gives me a new perspective in that regard.
The second part of the book details Dr. Coppola’s return to “normal” life back home after his first deployment.  Playing with his kids, puttering around his house, spending time with his wife.  Things that he missed out on while he was deployed.
Finally, the third part of the book relates Dr. Coppola’s experiences during his second deployment, from September 2007 through January 2008.  He comes into Balad to a new hospital facility that is much improved over his first “tent” facility during the first tour.  He details many more stories of people he encountered and surgeries he performed during this time.
This is an amazing book that I highly recommend.  It was an emotional read that really opened my eyes to what is actually happened on the other side of the world.  Many of the Iraqi people that Dr. Coppola encountered are just like us – they love their children and family fiercely and are appreciative to anyone who can help them.  This is definitely a must-read.

 
Purchase the Book:
 
Throughout November, Coppola: A Pediatric Surgeon in Iraq and NTI Upstream publishing will be donating 10% of all book sales on http://www.coppolathebook.com/ to our not-for-profit partner War Child. War Child is a registered charity dedicated to providing urgently needed humanitarian assistance to war-affected children around the world. War Child helps generate awareness, support and advocacy for children’s rights everywhere. (www.warchild.us). Each month a new not-for-profit organization will be supported. Please visit www.coppolathebook.com for more information.

The 10% donation will help support non-profit organizations as they continue to provide funding and services throughout the world. Each organization is chosen to exemplify the book’s themes of global healthcare, child humanitarian assistance, and troop welfare.

Giveaway:

NTI Upstream has graciously offered to giveaway one copy of Dr. Coppola’s book to a lucky reader of my blog!  You MUST be a follower of my blog to enter (just click on Follow through Google Friend Connect in the sidebar). 

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Review: The Man Who Loved Books Too Much by Allison Hoover Bartlett

Received for Review:

The Man Who Loved Books Too Much
Author:  Allison Hoover Bartlett
ISBN:  9781-59448-891-7
ARC Uncorrected Proof
September 2009
288 pages

Book Description:

“Rare-book theft is even more widespread than fine-art theft. Most thieves, of course, steal for profit. John Charles Gilkey steals purely for the love of books. In an attempt to understand him better, journalist Allison Hoover Bartlett plunged herself into the world of book lust and discovered just how dangerous it can be.

Gilkey is an obsessed, unrepentant book thief who has stolen hundreds of thousands of dollars’ worth of rare books from book fairs, stores, and libraries around the country. Ken Sanders is the self-appointed “bibliodick” (book dealer with a penchant for detective work) driven to catch him. Bartlett befriended both outlandish characters and found herself caught in the middle of efforts to recover hidden treasure. With a mixture of suspense, insight, and humor, she has woven this entertaining cat-and-mouse chase into a narrative that not only reveals exactly how Gilkey pulled off his dirtiest crimes, where he stashed the loot, and how Sanders ultimately caught him but also explores the romance of books, the lure to collect them, and the temptation to steal them. Immersing the reader in a rich, wide world of literary obsession, Bartlett looks at the history of book passion, collection, and theft through the ages, to examine the craving that makes some people willing to stop at nothing to possess the books they love.”
 
My thoughts:
 
I loved this book much more than I anticipated!  I wasn’t quite sure what to expect, but Ms. Bartlett’s writing style is very engaging and captures your interest right from the start – and sustains it until the end.  I learned so much about the rare book world and I knew absolutely nothing before starting this book!  It really does make you think about becoming a collector!  Who knew that some works are with thousands and hundreds of thousands of dollars?!  I had no idea!  I definitely recommend this book to any bibliophile out there.  It will make you look at books – and the people who covet them – in a whole new light!  Very good read and highly recommended! 

Many thanks to Lydia Hirt from Riverhead/Putnam Books for sending me this review copy!